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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

Most Replayed Moment: Alain de Botton - Individualism Is Making Us Miserable!

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.613.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Alain de Botton is a philosopher, author, and the founder of The School of Life. He is known for his insights into the intersection of philosophy, love, and the modern world, often exploring how societal structures impact mental well-being. In today’s Moments episode, Alain explores the psychological toll of living in an individualistic, meritocratic society. He reflects on the regression in mental health despite societal progress, and how ancient views could offer us a healthier path.  Listen to the full episode here! Spotify: https://g2ul0.app.link/Dy8GbYDXDVb Apple: https://g2ul0.app.link/tmgaYAJXDVb Watch the episodes on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

When you have a pixel 10, you may get asked a few questions. Like, what is that? How did you do that? And can we use your camera instead? Ask more of your phone. Google Pixel 10.

0:27.3

You got me thinking about this concept of happiness as you're speaking,

0:31.4

and whether it's a natural thing for our species to be aiming at,

0:36.4

or whether it's a new, more modern thing that we've decided to focus upon.

0:38.5

And are we causing ourselves immense distress in this pursuit of this thing that maybe our ancestors didn't, didn't ever think about this whole,

0:43.9

you know, we think about self-actualization and they were probably thinking about survival and

0:47.7

reproduction more? Look, these all belong to the sort of paradoxes of modern times. Modern times

0:53.0

have obviously brought us enormous

0:54.4

advantages, but they've also brought us particular complexities that I think would be wise to

0:59.3

realize. And one of them is the disappearance of religion. I mean, we are still among the first

1:03.9

generations in many parts of the world to be trying to live good lives without the support of

1:10.5

religion. Think of our religion's structure

1:12.6

time and human experience in time. As a religious person, you immediately feel the present

1:20.6

moment is not as important as 100, 200, 2,000 million year history that has come before and that will continue after.

1:29.2

The present moment is a speck in time and there's a whole narrative of which you're part of.

1:34.8

That immediately diminishes you in scale.

1:38.4

Now, nowadays, all of us want to be rather large.

1:41.3

We want to be big people.

1:42.8

We want to make a big impression.

1:44.5

But arguably, this is a fast route to mental illness, because the graceful acceptance of your

1:51.8

minuscule position in the cosmos is the gateway to calm and harmony. And when people say,

1:59.8

you know, I went into this hotel, you know,

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